HOW TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN

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I don't know how I'm supposed to view women, like most men, I've heard some
negative feedback on my ability to properly coexist with whiny, over-dramatic

females.

Stop staring, it’s rude.

They spend so much effort on looking good, but their biggest issue with us is our

creepy male gaze.

The treasure hunts.

She just wants to feel pretty and you're telling her cheesy pick-up lines from Google.
But it feels impossible to act normal around someone who's literally carrying gold
between their legs. You try to push away those feelings but when she realises your
intention, she loses interest and kind of thinks you're pathetic. Your self-worth is
dependent on her opinion. At some point, it's time to stop thinking like this.

You won’t experience her brains if all you want from her is... brain.

That's how the same woman who is pursued for her beauty ends up discarded and
cut in half by some guy. Maybe she can do more than spread her legs. Maybe if you
look closer, you'll see something you've never noticed before. But because you're
insecure and women's admiration makes up for what you're lacking. It's selfish, but
you're tired of lifting women up on a pedestal only to doze off mid conversation on a
R500 date because you're talking to a girl who never had to develop a personality.

I object, your honour!

Viewing women like romantic balls of joy is just as dumb as objectifying them,
because your heart will always get broken. You're worried that if you keep viewing
women as accessories to your life, you'll be that guy whose wife was found in the
back of the trunk, so it's time to go outside and meet real women, platonic and

celibate.

Indecision may or may not be their problem or perhaps my problem.

I don't even think they understand themselves. They want you to be straightforward
but not too straightforward, creep. They want your attention but only at the perfect
moment, when they need it. They kind of expect you to know how to read their
minds. I'm starting to understand why a lot of guys play it safe and stick to the hub.

Conclusion

I'm talking like this issue is universal, but after working on this blog for a week,
maybe I'm just horny. I attach so much importance to women's attention because I
grew up a little black boy in South Africa with braces. When you can't get something,
you start believing you won't be happy until you do, but your value as a man
shouldn't depend on a woman. What women want is somebody that doesn't need

them. Instead of approaching women as a projection of your desires, it's better to
see them as just other people. Usually, people are more interesting than they seem.